Amsterdam, 1991. The air smells of rain, bitter coffee, and fresh print from the Trouw newspaper. On the streets, boys wear neon windbreakers; girls carry oversized Jane Fonda-style tote bags. But in a dimly lit university computer lab in Utrecht, something revolutionary is flickering on a green monochrome monitor.
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Before 1991, sexual education in the Netherlands was fragmented, often biological and clinical, or relegated to a single “the talk” in the final year of primary school. However, the AIDS crisis of the 1980s forced a national reckoning. The Dutch government, in collaboration with organizations like Rutgers Nisso Groep (now Rutgers) and Sense, realized that silence was dangerous. But in a dimly lit university computer lab
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Unlike conservative systems that separated boys and girls for "the talk," the Dutch integrated them. This reduced mystification. A boy learning about periods in the same room as a girl reduced bullying. A girl learning about erections reduced shame. By 1991, Dutch teens reported feeling more comfortable asking questions than their American or British peers.